COUPLES COUNSELLING, MARRIAGE & RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLING
Couples counselling, relationship counselling & family counselling
Couples, Marriage & Relationship Counselling
We can help with all common marriage and relationship concerns. Whether you need help with frequent arguments, loss of desire, sexual difficulties, help after infidelity, stress in the relationship or other issues, taking the first step to resolving the problem can bring lots of relief.
What happens in couples counselling?
The reality is that most couples are apprehensive about relationship or marriage counselling, especially if they have never attended a couples counselling or individual therapy session before with a psychologist or counsellor.
It’s normal to wonder and even worry about what the psychologist will be like, whether they will take sides, or what you may have to reveal as part of couples therapy. These feelings typically pass after the first couples session.
Typically, your counsellor will recommend that both people in the relationship attend the couples counselling session together, at least initially. This is to help establish rules, goals and boundaries that are clearly about the couple and their relationship.
Sometimes we will recommend that clients meet with the psychologist individually, and many of our clients find it helpful to see the therapist first as a couple, then individually, in turns, and then to meet up again with the therapist as a couple. However, the structure is not prescribed by us. It is determined by the individual needs of clients, and many couples only have counselling sessions where they attend together.
For some couples, other issues can get in the way. If there is an individual issue such as anxiety, addictions or depression then, depending on the issue and your situation, your couples counsellor may suggest you see another Psychologist to help with that separately.
At Mindworx Psychology we know that for relationships, clients often benefit from a therapy such as Emotionally Focused Therapy.
What can a couples counsellor help with?
Common reasons for booking in with our couples and family specialists at Mindworx Psychology include:
- marriage counselling / relationship counselling by a qualified family and relationship psychologist,
- pre-marriage counselling,
- general Psychologist services for individuals.
We know relationships are not a one size fits all
Call us for bookings or for further information on our expert marriage counselling service at Baulkham Hills, in the Norwest Business Park.
Based in the Sydney Hills District, our mature couples counsellors, marriage counsellors and relationship counsellors have extensive experience and specialist training in couple counselling.
Navigating separation and divorce
The Australian Bureau of Statistics (ABS) records indicate that around 40% of Australian marriages will end in divorce. There are many reasons why relationships fail, including infidelity, fighting, unresolved conflict, ethical or cultural differences.
Seeing a marriage therapist can help with the decision making, or, if you have already decided to separate, to help make the process of separation or divorce more amicable.
Separation and divorce have both emotional and practical outcomes. However, divorce is usually the last step for an unhappy couple, especially when children are involved. Due to the significant impact, making the final decision is often one where relationship counsellors get involved.
Relationship counselling may help repair marriages in a variety of ways.
Relationship counselling may help repair marriages in a variety of ways.
- Arguments may reduce,
- communication may improve,
- trust and intimacy issues may resolve, and
- couples may remember what it is that works in their relationships.
Having a safe space to explore the issues causing difficulty – and working with someone trained in a range of relationship strategies that may reduce conflict can be incredibly helpful.
Sessions with a marriage counsellor or relationship psychologist can help you make the final decision as to whether divorce is appropriate.
- Arguments may reduce,
- communication may improve,
- trust and intimacy issues may resolve, and
- couples may remember what it is that works in their relationships.
Having a safe space to explore the issues causing difficulty – and working with someone trained in a range of relationship strategies that may reduce conflict can be incredibly helpful.
Sessions with a marriage counsellor or relationship psychologist can help you make the final decision as to whether divorce is appropriate.
We know that many couples in emotional distress also worry about a number of significant and serious financial and logistical issues, such as:
- How will the divorce affect our children?
- How will separation affect my financial situation?
- Where will I live? What will happen to the family home?
- Who decides where the children live?
- How will separation affect our friendships and our families?
Working through these issues with a psychologist can be an invaluable resource at a difficult time.
And if my partner doesn’t want to come? Talking to a qualified marriage or relationship therapist can help, even if you do so alone. For many of our clients who did not initiate their separation, working with a relationship counsellor to better understand what went wrong, what may have contributed to the problem, to resolve their own grief, loss and anger and find a place of acceptance can be incredibly helpful.
Family Therapy
Working on family dynamics can be a game changer for families. Establishing rules, setting boundaries, reclaiming relationships, safely expressing feelings. We know just how much of a relief it can be to finally feel that everyone is getting onto the same page.
Today, blended families are common. This can add to the challenges of the family. Many children harbour secret hopes that their natural parents will reunite, making them a ‘happy family’ with a simple life. They may need some counselling support and strategies to work through their feelings of resentment and make sense of their world. New step siblings may lead to changes in relationships that are positive and negative.
We know that step families can create wonderful opportunities to develop new, rich family relationships. And we know that joining a family together can be a challenging and sometimes difficult process. Children often need time to adjust to the new people in their lives. They may be uncomfortable with new living arrangements, new routines.
For adults in every family it is important to stay alert to the needs of the children and to remain patient as the family adjusts each year to the child’s new needs as their stage of life changes. Adults may also find they need to become more in tune with their own emotions and may wish to seek support during their own adjustment period. In new relationships, new partners may feel guilty or jealous of the attention given to children from past relationships. Step parents may have conflicted feelings, and may need support to resolve their feelings towards their partner’s children.
Our Location
Suite 206, 10 Century Circuit, Norwest Central, Baulkham Hills, NSW 2155
Fees & Insurance
You do not need a GP referral to book an appointment at Mindworx Psychology.
Medicare Rebates are available if you have a valid referral from a GP, Psychiatrist or Paediatrician.
Your Private Health Fund may offer cover for Psychology Services – you can check this directly with your fund.